Enough already. Get ready, time for another rant. I should probably have known when I started looking at other blogs and other articles on the article sites.
But, I plowed on through them getting more and more annoyed. Alright, I confess, I was ripped.
What was the cause of all this orneriness?
Articles about “how to please your woman” all written by men who obviously either didn’t know anything about what did please a woman, or hadn’t taken the time to ask one.
After a few sentences of “be more patient” or “tell her you love her” they went into a rant about how the biggest problem was “small penis.” Then they assure you their cream, exercise, or apparatus was the answer to all your problems in your bedroom.
Get a grip! After laughing at the first couple of articles, I started to get really annoyed.
Where did they get their information? Certainly not by asking any women.
If they had, they’d quickly learn that the size of a man’s penis is not an issue for the vast majority of women. It comes down to the old saw, it’s not what you got but what you do with what you got that makes a difference.
And, if they’d done any research, they’d know the sensitive area of a woman’s vagina only extends about 2 inches from the opening. And it can stretch to accommodate a baby’s head or contract to hold a tampon. So, it doesn’t matter how long a penis is, or how thick, it will do the job just fine.
And, most couples figure out that lots of other body parts than genitals are more efficient and effective at helping each other become aroused.
So, why are these guys promoting creams, exercise programs or apparatus? Because they know there are enough gullible, desperate people who will fall for their sales pitch based on the vacant hope there is a magic solution for being more successful in the bedroom
What sex therapists know is there is no magic, just two people taking the time to figure out what they each like, what works to help them become fully aroused, and how to recoup when they start to slip.
By the way, this whole exercise and rant was inspired by a book I just finished reading: Why Women Have Sex by Cindy Meston and David M. Buss. Their research is based on a large sample of women from diverse backgrounds. They cover everything from revenge and curiosity to preventing age-related vaginal atrophy. You’ll really get how complex desire and arousal really are. Get your copy today by clicking here.
