ED will not go away by itself. No matter how much you watch to see if it is getting better, pray it will, wait until it does, hope, engage positive thinking, it won’t go away unless you take action.
Yet, I continue to get emails and questions from men who ask “how long should I wait until it gets better?”
Waiting won’t work. Action will.
The question is “What kind of action?”
First, ask yourself if you really do have ED.
If you watch even a little bit of tv, you’d think every man in the country has ED. Especially since they seem to think any difficulty at all, even if you’ve had too much to drink, were really exhausted, upset by a family or relationship crisis, worrying about paying the bills, or struggling with ornery teens, means you have ED.
This is NOT bona fide ED. It is just the normal waxing and waning of every day living. When you are all stressed out, no matter what the cause, it’s really hard to get hard. It’s not a time when most men will feel sexual, aroused, or thinking of sex first. There’re problems to be solved, action to be taken, and life to be dealt with. You know: priorities.
However, if things are going pretty well, if you and your honey are doing good, you’re taking care of your health, the rest of the family and work are doing okay, and you’re still consistently having trouble, then it’s time to pay close attention and take action.
Time to get to your doctor. ED can be a forerunner for a number of health issues. So get yourself checked out. Then, if your health is okay, time to help yourself.
Start with making some changes in your daily routine. Consider changing to healthier life style choices, or making a recommitment to your main relationship, and get current information about how typical changes of aging can get in the way.
And, don’t forget to consider learning new sex skills designed just for seniors. They can make a huge difference.
You owe it to yourself and your honey. ED, or even increasing problems with erections, don’t go away by themselves, especially at our age. Take the first step to doing better.
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