December 28, 2009
- Reawaken Your Love’n Feelings
One of the most common patterns for couples who have been together for a long time is losing that love'n feeling. It’s what the pros call a lack of sexual desire. (…)
December 9, 2009
- Don’t Hesitate to Share Your Worries About ED with Your Honey
One of the questions I’m most often asked is, “How do I tell my wife I’m afraid I might have ED?”
My answer is always the same:
“Don't fret about surprising or shocking her. (…)
August 11, 2009
- How to Slip into Not Having Senior Sex At All
No one goes to bed at night, has satisfying senior sex, and then never makes love again. (…)
July 27, 2009
- Is Depression Tanking Your Satisfying Senior Sex?
One of the most common causes of low sexual drive among seniors, for both men and women, is having trouble with your relationship with yourself. (…)
July 22, 2009
- Are You Letting Your Life Interfere with Your Satisfying Senior Sex Life?
Many couples, both younger and older, unwittingly relegate a satisfying sexual relationship into nonexistence. And then wonder why they aren’t feeling as connected, and loving as they once had. (…)
June 19, 2009
- Take Charge of the Normal Changes of Aging to Support More Satisfying Senior Sex
The number one change, the one both women and men notice first as they get older, is making love just takes longer.
It takes longer to get the urge. (…)
June 16, 2009
- Is Hurt or Anger Destroying Your Satisfying Senior Sex?
One of the most common reasons older couples get into sexless marriages is when they’ve let some old hurt, or anger that's never been resolved run their love life. (…)
June 3, 2009
- Don’t Hesitate to Share Your Worries About ED with Your Wife
One of the questions I’m most often asked is, “How do I tell my wife I’m afraid I might have ED?”
My answer is always the same:
“Don't fret about surprising or shocking her. (…)
May 29, 2009
- For More Satisfying Senior Sex, Get Your Mama Out of Your Head
I don’t know about you, but I find it appalling that I can still hear my mom’s voice tell me what I should do, or shouldn’t’ do, especially when it comes to sex. (…)
April 21, 2009
- A Woman’s Reaction to His ED Often Doesn’t Help
While there has been lots written about how men react to their fear of having ED, often little attention is paid to how women react when they fear their love is struggling with ED. (…)
March 27, 2009
- Are You Asking Your Doctor the Wrong Question about ED?
Talking to your doc about ED is really hard for most men.
It’s not that they aren’t concerned, or don’t have questions. Most men do. (…)
March 23, 2009
- Is Communication Sabotaging Your Great Senior Sex?
Every client I've ever worked with, both on personal issues and in the work place, has placed the blame of the difficulties they're having to communication. (…)
March 13, 2009
- Don’t Let Fear of ED Sabotage Satisfying Senior Sex
ED always affects your partner, whether she's your wife of many years or a new girl friend. (…)
March 2, 2009
- Is Your Relationship with Yourself Sabotaging Satisfying Senior Sex?
Relationships can complicated, problematic and wonderful. Especially the relationship we have with ourselves. (…)
November 13, 2008
- Are You "Doing the Nasty"?
What’s nasty?
One of my first clients, I’ll call her Sue, who came for sex therapy was in a real tough spot.
Sue’s husband had told her she was repressed. (…)
November 11, 2008
- Oragasms…vaginal? clitoral? g-spot?
I don’t know about you…but I am finished with the whole “debate” over vaginal, g-spot, clitoral orgasms. (…)
November 6, 2008
- Is Your Intimate Life "Good Enough?"
If you look at the movies or romance novels, you’d come to believe ever time everyone else has sex, the rafters shake, bells ring, and both participants have earth shattering multiple orgasms. (…)
November 4, 2008
- Rekindle Your Love Life
Recently I was speaking with a former client. It had been a number of years since I saw them last. But, I remembered their story. (…)
October 21, 2008
- Lazy Lover Syndrome
Recently a woman was complaining to me about how relations with her new lover were not all that good. He put the blame on her…saying she was frigid and needed to go the doctor and get fixed. (…)
October 7, 2008
- It’s NOT About the Pill
To listen to all the uproar, you'd think The Pill, you know the little blue one, was the be all, end all solution to ED. (…)
