December 7, 2009
- Surprising News About Incontinence and Seniors
Most seniors expect to be incontinent. We prepare for it, become resigned to it, and think that is just the way life is as we get older. (…)
October 19, 2009
- Don’t Do’s for Talking to Your Doctor About Senior Sex
Don’t make these mistakes on your next doctor’s visit, especially when you want to talk about sex. (…)
October 13, 2009
- Is Your Desire Sabotaged by Your Medicine Cabinet?
We've talked before about how the practice of medicine has been changing, and the effects this can have on your getting the care you need. (…)
September 14, 2009
- Don’t Let Arthritis Take the Satisfaction Out of Your Senior Sex
One of the questions that I’m often asked is from couples who want to keep on love’n, but find arthritis is getting in their way. (…)
September 1, 2009
- Is Stress and Loss of Sleep Sidetracking Your Satisfying Senior Sex?
Stress seems to be an epidemic these days and often triggers poor sleeping patterns.
The cause of the stress isn't what seems to make the difference. (…)
August 14, 2009
- How to Kill Your Love Life and Prevent Satisfying Senior Sex
If you are looking for a quick and easy way to kill your chances for a satisfying love life, you can’t do better than drink too much or smoke. Even smoke a little. (…)
July 27, 2009
- Is Depression Tanking Your Satisfying Senior Sex?
One of the most common causes of low sexual drive among seniors, for both men and women, is having trouble with your relationship with yourself. (…)
July 18, 2009
- So What is the Furor All About with FSAD?
When I first wrote about FSAD last year, I had a number of comments from readers, saying some version of “finally, a lone voice in the wilderness,” to “you don’t know my wife.”
A recent question from a reader egged me on to revisit the topic, partly because she was sure I was trying to say there is no such thing as FSAD, Female Sexual Affective Disorder. (…)
July 14, 2009
- Men’s Predicable Changes of Aging that Interfere with Satisfying Senior Sex
Lots has been written about the challenges of women as they age, go through menopause, and struggle with feeling loving with fewer hormones. (…)
July 9, 2009
- Satisfying Senior Sex Sometimes Means Making a Different Effort
It may be difficult to accept you can't be the sexual giant, or giantess, you used to be.
Especially if intercourse can no longer be a part of your lovemaking. (…)
June 29, 2009
- Don't Let Your Fears of Having ED Derail Your Satisfying Senior Sex
Here’s the problem with trying to solve any problem. The more you worry, fuss about it, and watch to see if things are alright, the worse the problem gets. (…)
June 26, 2009
- Low Hormones May be the Cause of Your Loss of Sexual Desire
If you are a couple for whom sex has lost a priority position, it’s both frustrating and challenging to figure out just how you got into this position. (…)
June 12, 2009
- Are These Foods Destroying Your Satisfying Senior Sex?
In a recent post, I talked about how obesity can prevent satisfying senior sex. (…)
June 9, 2009
- How Many Men Really Do Have ED?
It’s the big question today: “Just how many men really do have some form of ED?”
The answer is in, “Well researched studies have shown the real number is 72% of all men over the age of 48.”
Sounds believable doesn’t it? (…)
June 3, 2009
- Don’t Hesitate to Share Your Worries About ED with Your Wife
One of the questions I’m most often asked is, “How do I tell my wife I’m afraid I might have ED?”
My answer is always the same:
“Don't fret about surprising or shocking her. (…)
May 19, 2009
- Ask Your Doctor About Sexual Issues…and then Ask Again if You Don’t Get Relief
One of the biggest traps to making changes when you are having a problem with a sexual issue is getting stuck trying to figure out why you are feeling the way you are feeling. (…)
April 21, 2009
- A Woman’s Reaction to His ED Often Doesn’t Help
While there has been lots written about how men react to their fear of having ED, often little attention is paid to how women react when they fear their love is struggling with ED. (…)
April 10, 2009
- ED Will Not Go Away by Itself
ED will not go away by itself. No matter how much you watch to see if it is getting better, pray it will, wait until it does, hope, engage positive thinking, it won’t go away unless you take action. (…)
March 27, 2009
- Are You Asking Your Doctor the Wrong Question about ED?
Talking to your doc about ED is really hard for most men.
It’s not that they aren’t concerned, or don’t have questions. Most men do. (…)
January 30, 2009
- Are Low Hormones Sabotaging Your Satisfying Senior Sex?
Most often when we talk about low hormones causing difficulties in sexual functioning for both men and women, we assume that the culprit is low sex hormones.
And, in many cases it is. (…)
