When I first wrote about FSAD last year, I had a number of comments from readers, saying some version of “finally, a lone voice in the wilderness,” to “you don’t know my wife.”
A recent question from a reader egged me on to revisit the topic, partly because she was sure I was trying to say there is no such thing as FSAD, Female Sexual Affective Disorder.
So, let’s get that cleared up right away. Read More→
Lots has been written about the challenges of women as they age, go through menopause, and struggle with feeling loving with fewer hormones.
Not that men don’t have their challenges, especially with the number one most discussed sexual issue of the day, ED or erectile dysfunction.
There is so much misinformation and inaccurate information about ED Read More→
It may be difficult to accept you can’t be the sexual giant, or giantess, you used to be.
Especially if intercourse can no longer be a part of your lovemaking.
But, at our age, your body gets to run the show, not your wishes or hopes.
And, it’s not enough to have Read More→
Here’s the problem with trying to solve any problem. The more you worry, fuss about it, and watch to see if things are alright, the worse the problem gets. Especially when you think you might have ED.
If you look down to see if it is up yet, it will Read More→
If you are a couple for whom sex has lost a priority position, it’s both frustrating and challenging to figure out just how you got into this position.
The standard catch phrase for many couples is some version of “we’ve grown apart.”
Easy to do, and it will take some effort on both your part, and some frank conversations about what you now want your life to be.
But, in many cases, the disconnect some couples experience may have been nudged along by hormones. Especially Read More→
