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Archive for Senior Sex Desire

Building Desire and Emotional Connection

Monday, March 1st, 2010

The most frequently missed step in improving your  senior sex life is working on desire first.

Not the desire to have a better intimate relationship, but Read More→

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Reawaken Those Love’n Feelings

Monday, February 8th, 2010

One of the most common patterns for couples who have been together for a long time is losing that love’n feeling. It’s what the pros call a lack of sexual desire.

And, it takes some attention to get it back. Time to start being deliberate about having more satisfying senior sex by getting back that love’n feeling.

Most couples have slid into lack of desire, without even realizing it.

It can include the little things…not letting your honey know how much you appreciate what they are doing for both of you, saying thank you, noticing when they’ve put in some special effort.

And the big things…not making love for weeks or even Read More→

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Reawaken Your Love’n Feelings

Monday, December 28th, 2009

One of the most common patterns for couples who have been together for a long time is losing that love’n feeling. It’s what the pros call a lack of sexual desire.

And, it takes some attention to get it back. Time to start being deliberate about having more satisfying senior sex by Read More→

How to Slip into Not Having Senior Sex At All

Tuesday, August 11th, 2009

No one goes to bed at night, has satisfying senior sex, and then never makes love again.

For most couples slipping into what some professionals call the “sexless marriage” is not a decision or a choice. It just sort of happens.

This unfortunate situation is characterized as those marriages, or significant relationships, where the couple has sexual relations less than Read More→

Is Depression Tanking Your Satisfying Senior Sex?

Monday, July 27th, 2009

One of the most common causes of low sexual drive among seniors, for both men and women, is having trouble with your relationship with yourself. Especially if you are depressed, or feeling down on yourself.

Your depression may be a reaction to grieving about missed or lost opportunities, experiences, or loved ones. While regrets about these misses or losses are understandable, many people hold on to them so tight, for so long, they slip from grief, regret, and frustration into depression.

Once there, it is very difficult to “pull yourself together” and just get over it. In fact, just trying Read More→