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Archive for Better Love'n Skills

Reawaken Those Love’n Feelings

Monday, February 8th, 2010

One of the most common patterns for couples who have been together for a long time is losing that love’n feeling. It’s what the pros call a lack of sexual desire.

And, it takes some attention to get it back. Time to start being deliberate about having more satisfying senior sex by getting back that love’n feeling.

Most couples have slid into lack of desire, without even realizing it.

It can include the little things…not letting your honey know how much you appreciate what they are doing for both of you, saying thank you, noticing when they’ve put in some special effort.

And the big things…not making love for weeks or even Read More→

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Reawaken Your Love’n Feelings

Monday, December 28th, 2009

One of the most common patterns for couples who have been together for a long time is losing that love’n feeling. It’s what the pros call a lack of sexual desire.

And, it takes some attention to get it back. Time to start being deliberate about having more satisfying senior sex by Read More→

Great Lovers are Made not Born

Monday, December 14th, 2009

Most of us were taught that sex was all about “do’n what comes naturally.”

Unfortunately for those of us who are still believers, just because sex is perfectly natural, doesn’t mean it is naturally perfect. And for those of us of a certain age, it often seems as if nothing is naturally perfect anymore.

The real truth is, great lovers are Read More→

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Do It FOR Yourselves Senior Sex Therapy

Thursday, November 12th, 2009

Your DIfY Sex Therapy program starts outside the bedroom.

And, it comes after doing some crucial prep work: understanding what role your physical, medical, and relationship factors have to do with your difficulties, especially ED. You’ve talked with your Doc to make sure the symptoms you’ve been having aren’t signals of a more serious condition, and you’ve talked with your wife to make sure you’re both committed to making your intimate life more satisfying — and you have defined what you want that part of your life to be.

Time to outline and commit to an action program that will ensure you achieve the changes you want.

Commit to Doing the Work

In order to build the love making skills that will bring back the satisfaction and intimacy you want, you must Read More→

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Don’t Let Arthritis Take the Satisfaction Out of Your Senior Sex

Monday, September 14th, 2009

One of the questions that I’m often asked is from couples who want to keep on love’n, but find arthritis is getting in their way. While arthritis is no longer considered an “old person’s disease” is can be a real hinderance to having satisfying senior sex.

Especially if one or both of you have arthritis in your hip, legs, arms, or back.

And, if you are still relying on what we used to call “The Missionary Position” Read More→

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